Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Little white lies lead to insanity

I feel so stupid.
I've been seeing the most wonderful guy, and, until today, we've been completely honest with each other.
Today, I told a white lie, which spiralled out of control and made me look insane.
I had planned to go out for dinner with my parents this evening (UK here, so it's evening now). My boyfriend was going arrange something with a friend.
It turned out that I went out with my parents this afternoon, and so had the evening free. Back at my apartment, I settled down with a book.
My boyfriend worries about me being lonely when I'm home by myself. I like being by myself, but he worries anyway. So it seemed easier not to tell him I was home.
When he text to say he had arranged to go out to dinner, I text back that I was still at the restaurant. STUPID, I know, but it just seemed easier.
About half an hour later he text to ask whether I was home now. I text back, no, we're still eating. Then he said that he thought I was home because I was showing there on Google Map.
No! I'd forgotten that my new phone (pic related) gave him my location. Rather than fess up, I panicked. I said that the restaurant was in the country (it was) and that there mustn't be much signal.
Here comes the insane part. I realised that the lie was poor, and thought I could solve it by showing my location appear near the restaurant (about 9 miles away). I grabbed my coat, and ran for a bus to take me there.
Halfway there, guilt hit me. I was being stupid. I was lying to the man I love for no good reason. It all felt out of control.
So I called him, and confessed. Now he must think I'm insane (probably, for him) or covering up a bigger lie (I'm not - he's the best thing that's ever happened to me).
He's gone for dinner with his friend and is going to call me later. How do I explain why I did what I did? How do I make him know it's the truth?




I feel so stupid.
I've been seeing the most wonderful guy, and, until today, we've been completely honest with each other.
Today, I told a white lie, which spiralled out of control and made me look insane.
I had planned to go out for dinner with my parents this evening (UK here, so it's evening now). My boyfriend was going arrange something with a friend.
It turned out that I went out with my parents this afternoon, and so had the evening free. Back at my apartment, I settled down with a book.
My boyfriend worries about me being lonely when I'm home by myself. I like being by myself, but he worries anyway. So it seemed easier not to tell him I was home.
When he text to say he had arranged to go out to dinner, I text back that I was still at the restaurant. STUPID, I know, but it just seemed easier.
About half an hour later he text to ask whether I was home now. I text back, no, we're still eating. Then he said that he thought I was home because I was showing there on Google Map.
No! I'd forgotten that my new phone (pic related) gave him my location. Rather than fess up, I panicked. I said that the restaurant was in the country (it was) and that there mustn't be much signal.
Here comes the insane part. I realised that the lie was poor, and thought I could solve it by showing my location appear near the restaurant (about 9 miles away). I grabbed my coat, and ran for a bus to take me there.
Halfway there, guilt hit me. I was being stupid. I was lying to the man I love for no good reason. It all felt out of control.
So I called him, and confessed. Now he must think I'm insane (probably, for him) or covering up a bigger lie (I'm not - he's the best thing that's ever happened to me).
He's gone for dinner with his friend and is going to call me later. How do I explain why I did what I did? How do I make him know it's the truth?

you type like a retard, tl;dr, and
>I feel so stupid.
you are.


you type like a retard, tl;dr, and
>I feel so stupid.
you are.

Agreed. Lack of paragraphs looks retarded.
I feel so stupid.
I've been seeing the most wonderful guy, and, until today, we've been completely honest with each other.
Today, I told a white lie, which spiralled out of control and made me look insane.
I had planned to go out for dinner with my parents this evening (UK here, so it's evening now). My boyfriend was going arrange something with a friend.
It turned out that I went out with my parents this afternoon, and so had the evening free. Back at my apartment, I settled down with a book.
My boyfriend worries about me being lonely when I'm home by myself. I like being by myself, but he worries anyway. So it seemed easier not to tell him I was home.
When he text to say he had arranged to go out to dinner, I text back that I was still at the restaurant. STUPID, I know, but it just seemed easier.
About half an hour later he text to ask whether I was home now. I text back, no, we're still eating. Then he said that he thought I was home because I was showing there on Google Map.
No! I'd forgotten that my new phone (pic related) gave him my location. Rather than fess up, I panicked. I said that the restaurant was in the country (it was) and that there mustn't be much signal.
Here comes the insane part. I realised that the lie was poor, and thought I could solve it by showing my location appear near the restaurant (about 9 miles away). I grabbed my coat, and ran for a bus to take me there.
Halfway there, guilt hit me. I was being stupid. I was lying to the man I love for no good reason. It all felt out of control.
So I called him, and confessed. Now he must think I'm insane (probably, for him) or covering up a bigger lie (I'm not - he's the best thing that's ever happened to me).
He's gone for dinner with his friend and is going to call me later. How do I explain why I did what I did? How do I make him know it's the truth?

F**kin live with it. If he loves you back he'll understand.

he'll realize you're freaking out and become concerned about you

"The plans changed and we went out on the afternoon. I didn't want you to be worried about me being lonely at home. I didnt want you to cancel your plans. That is why I said I was still at the restaurant. I'm sorry"

What exactly did you tell him?

What exactly did you tell him?

Pretty much what I put here. But I was quite upset, so I don't know if it made sense. He expects me to be rational, and this *really* wasn't.

whaaaaaat
I don't understand why you felt the need to lie to avoid explaining something. so dumb

Why are you crazy ? What could have possibly possessed you ?
Just tell him you're kinda crazy and that you lied for no real reason and you're sorry.
But seriously. You KARAZY

"The plans changed and we went out on the afternoon. I didn't want you to be worried about me being lonely at home. I didnt want you to cancel your plans. That is why I said I was still at the restaurant. I'm sorry"

This. F**king this.
I wish my ex had been this straightforward. I'd drive to her house and wait in the front until 5 minutes later when she picked up her phone and told me she was in San Francisco.

So your boyfriend stalked you on google maps. Yeah, dump him. It'll only get worse.

So your boyfriend stalked you on google maps. Yeah, dump him. It'll only get worse.

He isn't like that. And dumping him isn't an option: (a) I love him, and (b) I'm in the wrong here.

>He expects me to be rational
well, you're only human. he's got to understand an occasional lapse in reason. what you did was dumb and kinda lulzy, but not really bad.

i loled. ur dumb op

WHAT A F**KING TRAGEDY

He an untrustworthy stalker f**ker for looking up your location on the GPS. You should be mad at him.

He will cancels plans so you're not alone?
He will use google maps to check your location?
Either you're mentally ill and he's got good reasons to be like that, or he's a psycho.

Paste him this paragraph.

And this is why I don't have a cellphone. F**k you, and the rest of your spying asses. Creeps every single one of you.

"The plans changed and we went out on the afternoon. I didn't want you to be worried about me being lonely at home. I didnt want you to cancel your plans. That is why I said I was still at the restaurant. I'm sorry"

Do this or he will start thinking you are cheating on him.
Also your boyfriend is a paranoid possessive guy who will end up stalking you if you ever break up.

He will cancels plans so you're not alone?
He will use google maps to check your location?
Either you're mentally ill and he's got good reasons to be like that, or he's a psycho.

He an untrustworthy stalker f**ker for looking up your location on the GPS. You should be mad at him.

No, he doesn't cancel plans. But he worries about other people (not just me) too much, even when he doesn't really need to. It's because he's a nice, caring, guy.
And as for the sat nav thing, I don't believe he was 'checking up' on me. We both got new phones last week, and we've both been playing with them non-stop. I think he just noticed that I was showing at home.

"The plans changed and we went out on the afternoon. I didn't want you to be worried about me being lonely at home. I didnt want you to cancel your plans. That is why I said I was still at the restaurant. I'm sorry"

Do this
I dont see a problem?

IS THAT SUM HTC MAGIC

I feel so stupid.
I've been seeing the most wonderful guy, and, until today, we've been completely honest with each other.
Today, I told a white lie, which spiralled out of control and made me look insane.
I had planned to go out for dinner with my parents this evening (UK here, so it's evening now). My boyfriend was going arrange something with a friend.
It turned out that I went out with my parents this afternoon, and so had the evening free. Back at my apartment, I settled down with a book.
My boyfriend worries about me being lonely when I'm home by myself. I like being by myself, but he worries anyway. So it seemed easier not to tell him I was home.
When he text to say he had arranged to go out to dinner, I text back that I was still at the restaurant. STUPID, I know, but it just seemed easier.
About half an hour later he text to ask whether I was home now. I text back, no, we're still eating. Then he said that he thought I was home because I was showing there on Google Map.
No! I'd forgotten that my new phone (pic related) gave him my location. Rather than fess up, I panicked. I said that the restaurant was in the country (it was) and that there mustn't be much signal.
Here comes the insane part. I realised that the lie was poor, and thought I could solve it by showing my location appear near the restaurant (about 9 miles away). I grabbed my coat, and ran for a bus to take me there.
Halfway there, guilt hit me. I was being stupid. I was lying to the man I love for no good reason. It all felt out of control.
So I called him, and confessed. Now he must think I'm insane (probably, for him) or covering up a bigger lie (I'm not - he's the best thing that's ever happened to me).
He's gone for dinner with his friend and is going to call me later. How do I explain why I did what I did? How do I make him know it's the truth?

Switch it on him. Go off the deep end about how you have to lie because he's a control freak who won't leave you home alone and stalks you on google maps. Yell, throw some sh*t, then a few days later call him and tell him he can come back as long as he's less clingy.
You own him because you have pu**y. I hate admitting that, because I'm a guy, but it's the truth.

IS THAT SUM HTC MAGIC

HTC Desire

Switch it on him. Go off the deep end about how you have to lie because he's a control freak who won't leave you home alone and stalks you on google maps. Yell, throw some sh*t, then a few days later call him and tell him he can come back as long as he's less clingy.
You own him because you have pu**y. I hate admitting that, because I'm a guy, but it's the truth.

Errrm, not gonna happen.

OH! Say you're going on a plane trip, and then go camping in some woods that would have been along the way. Lol as he freaks out and thinks you crashed.


Switch it on him. Go off the deep end about how you have to lie because he's a control freak who won't leave you home alone and stalks you on google maps. Yell, throw some sh*t, then a few days later call him and tell him he can come back as long as he's less clingy.
You own him because you have pu**y. I hate admitting that, because I'm a guy, but it's the truth.

You should do this OP. If he crawls back, dump him cause he's a loser though.

tell him you left your phone at home - that's why your replies didn't show you at the restaurant. See if he figures out the impossibility.

He will probably think you were cheating, no matter what you say he will have doubt.

OH! Say you're going on a plane trip, and then go camping in some woods that would have been along the way. Lol as he freaks out and thinks you crashed.

I like this. Would fit in well with the volcanic dust cloud coming from Iceland.

Just tell him exactly what you told us and hope he trusts you; link him this page if need be. More lies does not the problem fix.

I feel so stupid.
I've been seeing the most wonderful guy, and, until today, we've been completely honest with each other.
Today, I told a white lie, which spiralled out of control and made me look insane.
I had planned to go out for dinner with my parents this evening (UK here, so it's evening now). My boyfriend was going arrange something with a friend.
It turned out that I went out with my parents this afternoon, and so had the evening free. Back at my apartment, I settled down with a book.
My boyfriend worries about me being lonely when I'm home by myself. I like being by myself, but he worries anyway. So it seemed easier not to tell him I was home.
When he text to say he had arranged to go out to dinner, I text back that I was still at the restaurant. STUPID, I know, but it just seemed easier.
About half an hour later he text to ask whether I was home now. I text back, no, we're still eating. Then he said that he thought I was home because I was showing there on Google Map.
No! I'd forgotten that my new phone (pic related) gave him my location. Rather than fess up, I panicked. I said that the restaurant was in the country (it was) and that there mustn't be much signal.
Here comes the insane part. I realised that the lie was poor, and thought I could solve it by showing my location appear near the restaurant (about 9 miles away). I grabbed my coat, and ran for a bus to take me there.
Halfway there, guilt hit me. I was being stupid. I was lying to the man I love for no good reason. It all felt out of control.
So I called him, and confessed. Now he must think I'm insane (probably, for him) or covering up a bigger lie (I'm not - he's the best thing that's ever happened to me).
He's gone for dinner with his friend and is going to call me later. How do I explain why I did what I did? How do I make him know it's the truth?

Just say "It's because I'm a woman"

Wow you suck at lying. You better plan your excuse beforehand when you eventually decide to cheat on him.

This is common woman stuff, and if he has any kind of feelings for you he'll overlook it.
My last ex would make plans with me and then something important would come up and instead of just telling me she would go through a string of complicated lies and misdirection until the last minute when she would confess and inconvenience me... this happened like 6 or 7 times throughout a whole year of dating...
Normal chick behavior.

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